Living On Purpose

I have recently found the author SARK, which is an acronym for Susan Ariel Rainbow Kennedy. So many people who participated in the call where I met her were raving about how she changed their lives; so I decided to go to the library to check out her books. I found two: Transformation Soup and Succulent Wild Woman. She’s authored plenty more, and all are hand written (that’s right, handwriting! She didn’t choose a font, unless someone decided to turn her handwriting into a font and call it SARK) with little drawings interspersed through the pages.

If you are on a healing journey in your life, I’d recommend her book Transformation Soup: Healing for the Splendidly Imperfect written in 2000. It starts out:

My mother is no longer the problem…now what?

And SARK explains about how she dedicated her early life to blaming her mother for her problems. She experienced abuse as a child and spent 9 years in psychotherapy on her own healing journey. At one point her therapist suggested that she stop talking about her mother during therapy! Her response:

I felt like I’d fallen out of a plane without a parachute, and finally managed to say, “What will we talk about then?”

Transformation Soup then goes on to explore the different healing modalities SARK has come across as she describes them with wit, wisdom, humor and pun-ny drawings. This book will help you during your own healing journey, for sure.

Succulent Wild Woman: Dancing with Your Wonder-full Self from 1997 is a book about exploring your creativity from all angles, but there are bits of everything in this book, and it’s quite hard to say what it’s about! Journaling, love, self-acceptance, erotic robots, feeling safe, being alone, how to paint, healing, motherhood, body image….this book really is an exploration.

On the call from thewomenmasters.com, SARK said, “All growth comes in spirals and layers.” That’s what I was aiming for when I designed my spiral shell wallpaper. (Use that link to go to the main wallpapers page and scroll to the 2 with shells on them: the 3rd and 4th from the top.) SARK clarifies what self-love is: you loving you so you can love the world more. Also, she said she supports people learning about their biochemistry as a way to heal oneself.

That’s what I was going for when I wrote Sad For No Reason. People go to therapy for years and years; some show great progress while others show little to none. Why? Is it the extent of the damage done in the first place during tender formative years? Or is the lack of progress due to biochemical deficiencies that short-circuit our brains’ ability to heal iteslf and accomplish creative problem solving? This is what I explore in Sad For No Reason. What I found astounded me and I hope it will astound you, too. When given the appropriate amino acid supplements and when the diet is cleaned up, the very people who struggled with depression, anxiety, eating disorders, or irritability for years with no progress during psychotherapy, could suddenly make leaps and bounds of progress in counseling.

Back to SARK! She has now become the self-proclaimed master of re-framing problems; so much so that she jokingly said her next store will be called “SARK’s ReFrame Shop”. You stop in, tell her your problem, and she’ll re-frame it into some kind of opportunity. That’s the trick; to find the opportunity within your current problems. So, say your creative dreams out loud, hug yourself daily, use her web site PlanetSark and her daily inspiration telephone line (1-415-546-3742 for a recorded message from SARK) and continue your journey to becoming a Succulent Wild Woman (or man).

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