Are you living it like you own it?

I’ve discovered that owning my own business changes the way I approach the job itself.  It’s really my husband’s business, but I’ve taken a lot of responsibility for it.  Today I spoke with another business owner, and he began complaining about how most employees don’t care about anything. He meant that the employees don’t take care to make sure his business grows or is viewed as reputable.  It’s natural, I’ve seen it all my life. An employee just has a job; he’s “only working there,” and only cares that he gets his paycheck.

It has been said many times before by many a motivational speaker that if you treat your job as if you only work there, you’ll never advance. If you give everything you do in your job 100% effort, not only will you gain a good reputation, you’ll probably be eligible for promotion sooner.

Let me tie this concept together with personal growth. If you go through your life blaming others for your troubles, and not taking responsibility for your feelings, you’ll slow your personal progress. That’s like treating your body and your life as if you “only work there” or are “only living there for now.”

Owning your feelings and owning your decisions in life helps fast-forward your personal advancement. If you treat your body and your life like you’re running your own business, you’re bound to take better care of yourself. And part of owning a business is doing the distasteful tasks like bookkeeping, checking in on the bank account, and trying to figure out where you’re spending your money and if you’re making a profit. Well, you’ll be making a “profit” in your life if you do the mental bookkeeping tasks of reviewing your habitual behaviors, finding out how you waste your energy, and understanding how/why you make your decisions.  Use your emotional guidance system to tell you if you’re in the black or red of your emotional life. (That just means you check in and evaluate how often you feel bad and how often you feel good.)

That was my quick insight for tonight, as I drove home at 8 p.m. because our work truck broke down and I was catching up on lots of office details. If you live it like you own it, everyone will see the difference in your perserverance and dedication, and your confidence will rise, too.


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10 Responses to “Are you living it like you own it?”

  1. Good read. You make great use of drive time. Thanks. Found your link on Twitter. Mary

  2. Great thoughts on checking in and trusting yourself Jessica.

    Creating new habits to replace habits that are not working can help to stay on track.

    It also helps to have an accountability partner. It’s easy to kid ourselves that we are making changes but if we have a good partner in change, they will see backsliding and speak up.

    I look forward to reading more of your thoughts.

  3. Thanks Mary and Laurel. Great point about the accountability partner, if you have someone available and willing to offer a reality check without sliding into anger and sarcasm. Thanks for your compliments!

  4. Great analogy!

    Isn’t if funny how these things hit you during a drive?

  5. It is funny how big insights happen when I drive. It happens a lot.

  6. So the coach in me is very curious! What is it about driving that causes such great insights? I know that walking tends to create a meditative state that can boost insights but have never heard that about driving? What happens for you Jessica when you are driving that lets you tune into something different?

  7. I require quiet time daily, but with a large family and lots of responsibility, the only time I have for quiet “brain freedom” is while I drive a regular route. I was driving home from the office, and I could get home on autopilot while my brain is free to roam. I’ve learned over the years to restrict negative rambling rant-style thoughts while driving. Analogies and insights do come up as a result of some visual stimulus or some train of thought.

  8. so the insight for everyone is to find a little quiet time, or brain freedom as you call it :smile: so that we can access the inner wisdom that’s always waiting for us.

    thanks for the conversation

  9. :grin: I *love* owning my own business~it’s been 15 years and that’s the longest time I’ve ever held a *work position*.

    Turns out, most large companies really don’t like an entrepreneurial type because they want people to show up and do everything rote without questioning if there is a *better way*. I was always seen as a threat, not an asset.

    Now, I have a really great boss (ahem) who knows I have her best interest at heart, will always do 150%, really *care* about our clients, and if there is a better way to do something~I’ll begin implementing it as soon as possible! :o )

    Here’s to ‘living it like you own it’!

    Many blessings,
    Nancy

  10. Here Here! To living it like we own it. Thanks for stopping by my blog Nancy. I hope you’re blessed with abundance to run your own biz for many more years to come.

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